God Esteem
The building of self esteem
is possibly the most misunderstood philosophy espoused today in our American
culture. Public schools, parents, and even well meaning churches crusade in
varying ways to build the self-esteem of students, children and parishioners
. But according to the Bible, the building of self-esteem is a wrong turn,
because esteem must come from the comments, feelings, and values of others
rather than from God. And as we well know, others will let us down, some more
than others. But God never does; in fact, as the Scripture states He holds so
many great thoughts for us each day that they cannot actually be counted. Now
who does that?
How precious are Your thoughts to me, O God! How vast is the sum of them!
If I should count them, they
would outnumber the sand. (Psalm 139 :17-18 )
How do you switch from
self-esteem to God esteem? I will leave you with the words of Christ.
Jesus said, “I am the
resurrection and the life; he who believes in Me will live even if he dies, and
everyone who lives and believes in Me will never die. Do you believe this?”
(John 11:25-26)
If you have accepted Jesus
as the Lord of your life. Here are just a few esteem thoughts that come from
God to you everyday.
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You are the salt of the
earth. (Matt. 5:13) |
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You are the light of the
world. (Matt 5:14) |
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You are my child. (John 1:12) |
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You are a part me, a channel
of My life. (John 15: 5) |
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You are my friend. (John
15:15) |
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You are chosen to bear fruit
for Me. (John 15:16) |
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You are a joint heir Me,
everything that is mine is yours. (Rom. 8:16-17) |
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You are a temple now , a
dwelling place where I hang out. (I Cor. 3:16, 6:19) |
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You are united with Me. (I
Cor. 6:15) |
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You are a member of My
church. (I Cor. 12:27; Eph. 5:30) |
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You are a new Creation.
( Col. 1:2) |
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You are chosen of God, holy
and dearly loved (Col. 3:12; I Thess. 1:4) |
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You are a son of light and
not darkness. (I Thess. 5:5) |
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You are like a Godly living
stone, being built up in Me as a spiritual house. (I Pet. 2:5) |
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You are a member of the
chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God’s own
possession (I Pet. 2:9) |
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You are my child. (I John
3:1, 2)) |
Teachable
Moment
Take your family out to the
beach. During your time together ask your children to count the surrounding
sand. Guarantee that if they come within a couple million you will treat them
to an ice cream cone. After they have tried for awhile, stop the count.
Explain that not even the most diligent and careful counter could count the
sand. Then read Psalm 139, but highlight verse 17 and 18. Tell
them that God’s thoughts toward them each day are more then all the sand they
could count.
Word of God
Matthew 5:13 “You are
the salt of the earth…”
Matt. 5:14 “You are
the light of the world…”
John 1:12 “ But as
many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even
to those who believe in His name.”
John 15:5 “I am the
vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much
fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing.”
John 15:15-16 “No longer do I call you slaves, for the
slave does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for
all things that I have heard from My Father I have made known to you. You did
not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that you would go and bear
fruit, and that your fruit would remain, so that whatever you ask of the Father
in My name He may give to you.”
Romans 8:16-17 “ The Spirit Himself testifies with our
spirit that we are children of God, and if children, heirs also, heirs of God
and fellow heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him so that we may also
be glorified with Him.”
I Cor. 3:16;
6:19 16“ Do you not know that you are a temple of God and that the Spirit of
God dwells in you? 6:19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the
Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your
own?
I Cor. 6:15 “ Do you
not know that your bodies are members of Christ?”
I Cor. 12:27 “ Now
you are Christ’s body, and individually members of it.”
Ephesians 5:30 “..We
are members of His body”
2 Cor. 5:17 “
Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed
away; behold, new things have come.”
Col. 1:2 “To the
saints ..in Christ, grace to you and peace from God our Father.”
Col. 3:12 “So, as
those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved…”
I Thess. 5:5 “for you
are all sons of light and sons of day. We are not of night nor of darkness.”
I Peter 2:5 “You
also, as living stones, are being built up as a spiritual house for a holy
priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus
Christ.”
I Peter 2:9 “ But you
are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God’s own
possession.”
I John 3:1-2 “ See how great a love the Father has
bestowed on us, that we would be called children of God; and such we are
Beloved, now we are children of God, and it has not appeared as yet what we
will be. We know that when He appears, we will be like Him, because we will see
Him just as He is.”