"Fathers,
do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline
and instruction of the Lord.
(Ephesians 6:4)
A number of years ago when I was a youth
pastor in the Bay area of California, I had the opportunity to minister to
many young people with varying backgrounds. Not all of my high school
students came from well-adjusted homes; some grew up in broken homes where
the father had abandoned the family. Todd was one of those high students in
my youth group who was abandoned by his father and seemingly never got over
it. The desertion of his father caused Todd to continually struggle, even
though God supplied him with loving adoptive parents, and many faithful
friends in our youth group. For Todd, God’s alternate rescue plan ("Plan B")
did not satisfy him. What Todd did not understand was that historically
God’s "Plan B" was the rescue effort He was compelled to use in almost every
generation due to the dominating presence and devastation of sin. The
implementation of "Plan B" (God’s rescue arrangement) actually began in the
Garden of Eden. Adam and Eve were intended to live out their entire lives in
the presence of God, without the presence of sin ("Plan A or God’s intended
will"). Yet when Adam and Eve chose sin, God immediately responded with
"Plan B" which was an amazing salvage effort that would not only rescue them
but everyone who would ever be born (Genesis: 14-15). " Plan
B" was unparalleled because it involved the incredible sacrifice of His Son
on a torturous cross, a lengthy passage of time before the plan was
completed, and man’s continuous opportunity to accept "Plan B" throughout
every age (Romans 5:14-16, 2 Cor. 5:14-15). "Plan B" pays the
price for everyone’s sin (Romans 3:23); the only thing blocking it is
individual response. God does not force any of us to accept His plan; He
only draws us to it (John 6:44). God in His predestined plan
does not make us chose it; He created us with the freedom to chose, whether
good or bad. (Romans 8:29-30, Romans 10:9, 10, 14).
"Plan B" (God’s rescue effort) for
Todd’s life did not impact him until one memorable summer weekend with our
youth group in Yosemite Valley, California. During the course of our
retreat, God really spoke to Todd in a way that changed his thinking forever
about God’s "Plan B". In preparation for the Saturday morning devotion, I
gathered over 150 teenagers together for a time of worshipful singing. After
we finished, I instructed them to find a place in the meadow for a time of
quiet devotion. I asked each to read one of the Psalms and be prepared to
share with the group what God had revealed to them when we returned for the
concluding session. I told them to pick the Psalm that represented most
closely the day on which they were born. As an example, February 7th
(2nd month, 7th day) could be Psalm 2:7. After about
30 minutes, each of the students began to make their way back to our
gathering. The sharing was rich as each student had a lot to say, but Todd’s
comments spoke to all of us the loudest that day. He told us that at first
he had no intention of reading any Psalm, but the curiosity of which Psalm
represented his birthday got to him. As Todd stated that morning, "When I
read the Psalm of my birthday, I could only cry tears of joy. The great
burden of being without a father was taken from me, because of what I felt
the Lord said to me in that Psalm." Then Todd read to us Palm 2:7, "I will
surely tell of the decree of the Lord; He said to Me, Thou art My Son." Todd
was never the same after that day;" Plan B" in his life was satisfying.
Teachable Moment
In your Teachable Moment take your
children to a near by park where there is a river or creek. If you can find
one with a number of bridges like in Boise, Idaho then all the better. We
presently have a bridge over the Boise River that is still under
construction, so in order to get across the river we all have to cross
another bridge down stream. Cross the bridge down stream with your children.
Then sit down with them and help them find the Psalm that represents their
birthday. Along with discussing it, share with them that sometimes "Plan
A’s" in God’s kingdom don’t workout because of sin. But instead of giving
up, cross down stream with God’s "Plan B" bridge.
Word of God
Genesis 3: 14-15
14 The Lord God said to the serpent, "Because you have done this, cursed are
you more than all cattle, And more than every beast of the field; on your
belly you will go, And dust you will eat all the days of your life; 15 And I
will put enmity between you and the woman, And between your seed and her
seed; He shall bruise you on the head, And you shall bruise him on the heel.
*(In respect to other fulfilled events listed throughout the Bible,
especially in the New Testament, here is my interpretation of this Genesis
prediction). And God said to Satan after he fooled Adam and Eve with
sin, "I will go to war with you over my creation. I will put a barrier
between you and My own Son, whom is willing to enter the human race in order
to save everyone who was ever born from their sins. I will make war against
you; a war I intend to win. I will put an immeasurable distance between your
followers and my Son’s. But before victory is achieved, I will let you hurt
Him in any way you can, but once He dies on the cross, your domination over
this world is at an end. Your plans to steal my creation will be destroyed
at the cross, because man’s sins are the only thing that keeps him from Me.
After the cross, nothing can keep all of my creation out of the kingdom
except their own decision not to repent and accept My forgiveness. Those who
do will be with me forever, those who don’t are yours.
Romans 5:14-16 14
Nevertheless death reigned from Adam until Moses, even over those who had
not sinned in the likeness of the offense of Adam, who is a type of Him who
was to come. 15 But the free gift is not like the transgression. For if by
the transgression of the one the many died, much more did the grace of God
and the gift by the grace of the one Man, Jesus Christ, abound to the many.
16 The gift is not like that which came through the one who sinned; for on
the one hand the judgment arose from one transgression resulting in
condemnation, but on the other hand the free gift arose from many
transgressions resulting in justification.
2 Corinthians 5:14-15
14 For the love of Christ controls us, having concluded this, that one died
for all, therefore all died; 15 and He died for all, so that they who live
might no longer live for themselves, but for Him who died and rose again on
their behalf.
Romans 3: 23 for
all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.
John 6: 44 "No one
can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him
up on the last day.
Romans 8:29-30 29
For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the
image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren; 30
and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He
also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified.
Romans 10:
9, 10, 14 9 that if you confess with your
mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe
in your
heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved; 10 for with the
heart
a person
believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses,
resulting
in
salvation. 14 How then will they call on Him in whom they have not
believed? How
will they
believe in Him whom they have not heard?